Are we there yet?
- cherylbuckley543
- May 31, 2024
- 2 min read
Friday May 31, 2024
Today is my dad’s birthday in heaven. I miss him more than I ever thought possible. Especially in times like this, I wish he could be here to enjoy these moments of triumph and turmoil with me. But I know he is watching over me. I love you and miss you daddy!

Tuesday came with a small window of reprieve from the building and angry seas. I was even able to ride the Peloton in the morning, which was truly a blessing. This trip has become exhausting. Not with regards to sleep, because we each get a full 8 hour every night, but with the intense movement of the boat. Just sitting is an active process. It takes a toll on you to have to constantly brace and balance yourself. It’s like a never ending episode of Wipeout. Going about the day to day without falling offf the boat, or down the stairs, or off the couch or out of bed. Either of us had been able to exercise for several days. It was amazing how rejuvenated I felt after just 30 minutes in the bike. It’s therapy for my soul.
The reprieve in the weather was short lived, as the winds and seas swiftly began the packed up again. We definitely put this bot nd ourselves to the test. So far we’ve all survived.
Over the next two days, winds would build to 28 knots and the seas became massive walls of water 10-15 feet high. There are several different weather systems here right now. There is a Low in front of us, this is what is giving us our wind and sea. There is a High behind us with another Low behind that. On Wednesday we were getting stuck in the High, causing decreasing winds. That’s sounds really great, except the Low then moves faster than the boat, and then we would get stuck in the leading edge of the Low with winds in the 30-40 knot range. We definitely do not want to be there. So we motorsailed NE to get out of the high and into the trailing edge of the Low to allow it to pull us east as it moves towards Azores. And though we were successful in doing that, it was a rough ride. We endured this the rest of Wednesday, all of Thursday and into Friday.
It’s Friday morning and the winds and starting to subside and the sea is beginning to settle down. Right now we are in third place in the multihull division of the ARC rally, but there are two boats on our heels. We need to keep our speed up. We have 560 nm to go. It’s going to be a race to the finish. It’s anyone’s guess what will happen.

Cheri, I never new that we had that in common. We both lost our dads early in life for me it was one day after I turned 19, he was 59 and my only hero in a new country. Its really the pits not being able to share with them our triumphs and misfortunes. Sounds and looks like you lost him to early as well. Am sorry and sincerely feel for you. But rest assured your making him very proud as he looks down from above and tells his friends in heaven, you see that little sailboat down there in the middle of that big ocean ? That's my girl in tune with nature in all her glory. Carry on…